Sunday 3 March 2019

Trust or Bust


Mullumbimby NSW Australia
What doesn't kill us makes us stronger, who said that anyway?

This thought has come to me a few times of late as I recently relocated from country life to city life. This was a decision myself and my family made to give my sons more opportunities as well as create a better working situation for my husband.
 I had not experienced a major relocation for 23 years and I had forgotten that it is one of the ultimate ways to throw yourself out of your comfort zone.  Anything that feels secure is gone and one realises that at the end of the day, security is an illusion because at any moment things can change anyway.
In my previous life in Mullumbimby, shopkeepers knew my name, locals smiled at me even when they didn't know me and I would often run into a few people I knew when I walked down the main street of town.  I knew the area like the back of my hand and my car would practically drive itself around. If I had a need, I knew the best place to go, if I needed a friend there was always someone to talk to.

On my first visit to the local shops here in Brisbane, there were no smiles, no familiar faces, only glum looks as people stare at the ground.  The traffic seems crazy, moving at a much faster rate than I am accustomed to and most of the time I have no idea where I am going and have to listen to the lady voice of google maps to go from A to B.  The mountainous landscape of Brisbane has forced me to get good at hill starts in my manual car. I have no idea where the best health food shop is, if I need a doctor, where I would go or where the best restaurants are.  I know not one person in this city.

So, the way I see it, I have a big choice here. I can choose to be overwhelmed and grieve for my former life ( fear based thoughts) or I can see this as one hell of an adventure with excited anticipation of the possibilities of what can be and what reality I can choose to create here. (love based thoughts)

The other wonderful thing I can do is choose to trust!  Up until now in my 57 years of being on this planet, somehow I have been looked after.  

Like everyone, there have been highs and lows but Spirit has always had my back and supported me regardless of my mistakes and my triumphs. 

One thing I know for sure is that it takes less energy to relax, surrender and trust than it does to resist, hold on, control and wait for the worst to happen. Its time to walk my talk, trust and be open to the new.

The only true security lies within. Only one thing doesn't change and that is the constant flowing energy that keeps us breathing and will still be present when we stop breathing. That energy is 100 percent pure, unadulterated love.

Whatever challenges we face right now in our lives, it helps to remember our best friend lives within and in a quiet moment we can hear what our friend has to offer in terms of guidance and comfort.

Who says you can't teach an old dog new tricks? Universe, you have my attention!

Have a great March and look out for the shift of planet Uranus out of Aries into Taurus, there will be disturbance in the force but one of growth and forward movement, so hang onto your hats. (for more info on that, I suggest to google it) 

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I have been low in energy for a while and not sure why. I wonder is there a health issue? Spirit may have guidance for me. Thanks, so grateful for help. Zoya

As a medium, I refuse to diagnose physical conditions as basically I am not a physician of any sort. As a friend,  I totally recommend a check up as it often puts our mind at rest.  As a medium, I do sense your Dad in Spirit around you trying to make you laugh and be a bit silly. He suggests what you need is some good old fashion fun.  He shows me an outing near the ocean and you breathing the fresh air and sunshine. He sends so much love and I can hear music playing, Dance and be merry is the over whelming message.

Hi Liz, will my work environment change soon for my benefit. Thing is really tough at the moment. Jolanda 

Spirit shows me some shifts and changes that may alleviate the pressure in the next few months but I feel the foundation energy of the work place is toxic. I sense your guardian angels are whispering in your ear to think about change in the long term. Even if it seems your options are limited at present, it wont always be the case. If you can get clear where you would like to be 12 months from now, that could be the beginning of creating a new reality for yourself.  I feel you are outgrowing the current situation at work and will need new structure to grow within. Have faith in yourself, you are very talented and have a lot to offer. Spirit has your back. 

 I have a question for spirit. I’d like some guidance about my house, which is on the market and future housing security. Punita

I sense a wise, older man around you in Spirit, like a father figure. He says that you have done all you can with this situation for now and the rest is up to divine timing. Sit back, relax and enjoy the ride is what I hear.  There is a future of feeling secure in a cute home, maybe near water, it feels very relaxing.

I really don't know what to do about my employment situation. I left a job on Thursday of last week to start a job with a government department. This new job was supposed to start on Monday, now they tell me they want me to work longer hours than originally agreed. I cannot offer this as I have a child I need to collect from after school care.
 If I were to work the hours they're asking, I'd never get back to him on time. They have agreed to let me finish at 4pm each afternoon until I can make "other childcare arrangements" (no idea what?). I am so upset that I left a reasonable job (with hours that suited me perfectly!), that I'm going to try & see if I can get that job back (the one I just left) even though the contract is supposes to end on 31 March.   Do you think this will be possible and do you think I will find a longer term suitable position with hours that I can do?

I do not mean to confuse you more but I really sense from your guides and angels that this situation has a silver lining in it and to not ignore the potential of the new job.  I feel you were meant to get this job and that you will be able to negotiate or find a solution to the child care situation. Going back to the old job will only be short term if at all and I feel the new job will open new and exciting doors for you. At the end of the day, all roads lead to Rome so if you do choose to go backwards, eventually you will go forwards again. This week will see you resolving this dilemma, keep the faith and keep asking Spirit for help.

Can You ask spirit If I will end up back in the land of OZ?

I sense a beautiful Indigenous guide around you who says that patience is required and that whatever it is you are doing where you are, in terms of inner growth, is not yet complete. Enjoy the energy of the nature where you are, there are messages in the wind for you.  When the timing is right, I do sense you will end up in OZ again, but for now, stay in the moment as much as you can and know you will be guided at the right time.

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